Advice to newcomers from a mature, experienced submissive

  • January 16, 2019

I am not a newcomer to BDSM or to enjoying sessions with professional Mistresses. I’ve been enjoying BDSM for more than 40 years.

I do remember being a newcomer all those years ago though. I remember – with some shame – making an appointment with a Mistress and not showing up because I was too nervous about being tied up by a complete stranger. I remember telling a Mistress all about my fantasies, then on the day of the appointment realising that actually I probably couldn’t take the severe things that I’d asked for. Do you recognise any of this in yourself? Some of you probably will. I am older and wiser now, and if I make an appointment with a Mistress, I always turn up for it. That is because I do a lot of research before visiting a Mistress.

I wish there was a Mistress like Mistress V when I started out in the wonderful world of BDSM. As well as being seriously good at what she does, Mistress V is a very kind lady. Why does that matter? It matters because her innate kindness makes her want you to enjoy every second of the time that you spend with her. And you can tell that she loves what she does.

Mistress V takes immense pride in knowing that by the end of the session, you are fully satisfied. She will talk to you before the session, to get inside your head, something that she is incredibly good at. If on the day of the session, you realise you have asked for more than you can cope with, you can tell her, and she will be happy that you’ve told her. But if you don’t tell her, she will quickly find out for herself and tailor the session accordingly, rather than continue doing things that she knows you aren’t enjoying.

Mistress V will slowly, carefully and sensually take you into the wonderful place that is subspace, so that you enjoy an out of this world experience that few, if any, others can match.

For the last 2 years, I have only sessioned with Mistress V, in spite of the fact that it is almost a 4 hour round trip from where I live to Mistress V’s wonderfully well equipped multi roomed and lovingly assembled chambers.

Mistress V realises that not everyone wants pain, and she loves the sensual side of domination. She can also be very sadistic, for those who enjoy that. But above all, Mistress V is very kind, and it is that kindness and its resultant desire to satisfy your cravings which makes her the best Mistress I have ever met.

Whether you are a newcomer to BDSM or as experienced as I am, you will find no-one better than Mistress V. If you want more confirmation of her expertise, you might want to read her other testimonials

Happy Days!

  • January 10, 2019

What a fantastic couple of days I’ve had. A mixture of old and new clients all week as well as a couple of novices.

My first session yesterday morning (weds) was at 9.30 with a newbie hard sports slave! Before my slave was due to arrive I had a strong black coffee – the perfect laxative, and it wasn’t long before I could feel its effect.

I had another 20 mins to wait. I didn’t think I could last that long as the urge to go was getting more and more intense lol. Squeezing my bum cheeks together I held on.

He was soon ringing the doorbell. I opened the door and ordered him upstairs.

At this point I was ready to explode! No time for chit chat he wants my shit and boy is he going to get it haha!

“Get stripped off and lie on the plastic sheet. I’ve been holding on to his package for too long now so you need to be quick!!”

He was on the floor mouth wide open and as I  stood above him I parted my bum cheeks wide.

“Are you ready?”

“Yes Mistress”

Even if he wanted to back out he couldn’t as it was out!

“I hope you’re not going to just twirl it around in your mouth!! You need to swallow it!! All of it!!!”

He did as instructed. I then lowered my bum down onto his tongue.

“Now clean it!!!”

Perfect Wednesday morning. Breakfast was definitely served hot!!

A novice client

  • January 5, 2019

Friday morning and my new slave arrived; opening the the door I saw a very nervous young man.

“Come in and go upstairs.”

I offered him a drink, we then sat and have a little chat. He told me he was a novice and had never been to see a Mistress before. Brilliant I do love a novice!

After he’d finished his drink, I told him to undress in the main play room, and on entering the room he shyly looked in my direction.

“Look at the floor boy not me, unless I instruct you otherwise!!”

During our chat he did mention he’d like to try sounds, but not until we’ve played in my favourite room.

I stood in front of him looking straight at his face, telling him he’s my new virgin and I will pop his cherry before he leaves here today.

I used a shoe lace and tied his cock and balls, pulling it nice and tight on the tip of his cock, which at this point was hard as rock, and once tied, I gave it a hard slap!

With him being a novice I had to be cautious as I didn’t know his limits. I then proceeded to tie him with rope, arms bound behind his back.

“Open your mouth!”

The taste of my spit made his cock even harder.Slap!!!!

Moving onto his nipples lightly squeezing them,adding pegs and pinching them together with my fingers made my newbie stand on his tip toes.

“Are you a ballerina!! Hahaha!”

Untying him I put him on my Cross, then ightly flogged his bottom and the back of his legs.

We then moved into the medical room for the sounds. Laying on the medical bed I straddled across him, sitting my arse over his nose and mouth. I inserted the thinnest sound first. Wriggling my arse all over his face while I masturbated him with hand and sound. He was in subspace heaven breathing in the sweet scent of my pussy.

Wish you were him? Call me to book and it could be your face I’m sitting on

A Fantastic 3 Hour Session!

  • December 22, 2018

My 3 hour appointment arrived bang on the time agreed. After letting him in we discussed his likes and dislikes over a nice cup of coffee. He informed me of his love for needles and how he’d like to be a bit more extreme with them. Music to my ears! My mind was racing with ideas.

I ordered him into the medical room.

I started the needle play on his scrotum, making my way up his shaft right to the top of his bellend, then changing the direction of the needles going all the way back down his shaft. I then put 7 needles through his japs eye, putting four of my fingers and lightly lifting the needles that are around the top of his cock so he was slowly raising himself off the bed. This to me was a big buzz, watching him trying to control his whimpers LOL!

He said he’d never had this many needles in his cock and balls, and I’m not too sure how many I actually put in him as I was getting carried away as I do sometimes when I’m playing with them. Taking them out is the best !! I then cleaned him up and told him to crawl into the main dungeon room.

Strapping him down tightly to my bench I began to administer the strap, very lightly at first. Increasing the strength of the strokes, I could see he was drifting into to subspace; taking him deeper with each stroke, I used 5 different straps in total with 200 strokes.

Removing him from my bench I took him to my ceiling suspension. Attaching the cuffs I pulled his arms up above his head as far as they would go.

“Ever been whipped before?”

“No Mistress.”


He was trying to stay still, because I told him if he continued to move and wriggle about I would add another 20 strokes!

“It hurts miss!!”

“Hahaha! That’s the funniest thing I’ve heard all day, did you think it was going to tickle?”

After a good whipping, I released him and  strapped him to the bench, this time for a flogging.

“Count the strokes!!!”

Once the flogging was over I got him a blanket and left him to recuperate for 10 mins before telling him to get dressed.

A wonderful 3 hours for both of us.

Branding My sissy

  • December 16, 2018

On Saturday afternoon my sissy presented herself in my chambers with a couple of new requests. She brought her own razor and shaving foam for me to shave all her pubic hair off! She also requested to be branded, I don’t have a brander but I do have another implement that could do a good job. With these requests my imagination was in full motion.

“Get your sissy arse changed in the pink room. I have placed 3 outfits on the bed with stockings bra and panties and the blonde wig.”

Once was ready I applied some bright red lipstick; it looked perfect.

“Let me put on some music, you can show me your sexy moves!”

She was dancing away having the time of her life, she does a good Slut drop and knows all the right moves. After letting her have her moment I got the shaving foam and razor and pulled down her red panties. She sat on the bed while I humiliated her shaving every pube in sight.

I then get the hot hair straighteners!

“No Mistress please, I’ll be a good Slut!!”

“Hahaha shut up bitch and get your arse in the air!”

I pulled her over to me and lightly touched the skin on her arse cheeks.

“Ouch that hurts!”

“Well you asked to be branded, take it, you only get what you deserve!”

An Upcoming First Session with Mistress V

  • December 7, 2018

Mistress Victoria has kindly allowed me to write this for Her blog. I am on older (67) slave with many years of BDSM experience behind me but hope to explore new avenues of experience with Mistress Victoria.

Mistress has agreed to a two hour session with me and I have paid a 50% deposit. I love breath play and TENS electrics but have never experienced these from the confinement of a vac bed or had breath play enforced by face-sitting, which is what Mistress Victoria has agreed to do during O/our session.

I am really looking forward to the session and have read with great interest about Mistress Victoria’s sadism. I have never experienced real sadistic torture and want to encourage Mistress (hence this blog entry) to muffle my screams as she face sits me and uses Her TENS unit to teach me what it really means to be the victim of a sexual sadist.

What do You think? Should I ask to endure this treatment for the full two hours? Is there any other way the session could be made more ‘instructive’ or humiliating? I would love to hear from those who know Mistress Victoria well.

What a fantastic day!

  • December 3, 2018

Yorkshire Mistress

Well what a fantastic day I’ve had. Filming and doing lots of photos!

My new cock and ball shocker was put to good use; as soon as my Slave arrived I made him put it on! Starting of at a very low level I soon got the gist of it. It was hilarious watching him jumping about like a rabbit hahaha very effective!

I decided to give him a cold caning.  Well he’s my collared slave, so I can do anything I want to him!

Feeling quite peckish after the caning, I shared my chicken salad sandwich with him, chewing it slowly making sure I had plenty of saliva on it I spat it onto the plate! Eat it Slave! Looking straight at me, chewing it, savouring the taste of my saliva and my breath all in one! He eagerly swallowed it all and thanked me for it!!

“Thirsty now aren’t you! Lie down on the floor and open your mouth as wide as you can.”

I pissed directly into his mouth, stopping now and again so he could swallow without choking; we wouldn’t want that now would we?

“Stand up and go and get me a needle Slave!!”

I used the needle to carve my initials into his chest, then stuck the needle through his left nipple.

“Time for the vacbed! Get in!” When he was tucked into my vacbed I sucked all the air out then gave him CBT with my electrics

The full session video and many more can be seen on my account

An awesome restraint session!

  • December 3, 2018

My bondage Slave and his love for ropes and anything that can restrain.

After a brief phone call and the usual arrangements my Slave arrived (same day booking).

“Come in and keep your head bowed, I want you to go in the sissy room and get undressed fully, I will call you when I’m ready.”

After 10 minutes I called him into my play room, ropes all laid out, bondage board ready. Tying him, arms behind his back I ordered him to sit down with his knees up to his chest I tie his legs, tormenting him with what I’m going to do to him next.

I put the hood on him.


He nodded

“Sniff as much as you can, I want to abuse you while you’re here, obeying my every command. Open your mouth!! My cock gag’s ready for you. Ever been in a vacbed?”

He shook his head. I turned on my heel and get the vacbed, laying it out on the floor and I then began to untie him.

“More oppers?”

He nodded.

I unzipped the vacbed. “Get inside!!”

Once he was inside and all the air was out, I pulled his cock through the opening! Time for fun! He couldn’t move. I attached the e-stim electrics.

Wish you were him? Follow the same procedures as him and it could be you!!

A Vacbed Session

  • November 26, 2018

My bondage Slave and his love for ropes and anything that can restrain.

After a brief phone call and the usual arrangements my Slave arrived (same day booking).

“Come in and keep your head bowed. I want you to go in the sissy room and get undressed fully. I will call you when I’m ready.”

After 10 minutes I called him into my play room, ropes all laid out bondage board ready.

Tying him arms behind his back, I ordered him to sit down with his knees up to his chest. I tied his legs, taunting him with what I’m going to do to him next.

I put the hood on him.


He nodded.

“Sniff as much as you can, I want to abuse you while you’re here, obeying my every command.

“Open your mouth!! My cock gag is ready for you. Ever been in a vacbed? He shook his head.

I turned on my heels and prepared the vacbed.

“Get inside!!”

Once he was inside and all the air was sucked out, I pulled his cock through the opening! Now the fun begins. He couldn’t move. I attached the e-stim to his cock……

Wish you were him? Follow the same procedure as him and it could be you!!

My slave’s first time scat session – as it happened!

  • November 18, 2018

The morning has arrived for my Slave to eat my waste and clean my dirty arse !!I ate plenty of spicy food the night before just to add a bit of flavour.

On his arrival I opened the door to see my Slave literally trembling.

“Calm down slave.  Nothing has happened yet!!”

“Yes Mistress”

Laying my bondage board on the floor I got my rope; he’s going to need to be tied down securely as he will only wriggle and try avoid eating my waste!!

“Lay on the board.”

Once he was tied and shackled I stood over him.

“You’re going to eat all of it and I’m going to feed you. Understand?”

“Yes Mistress”

Spreading my arse cheeks, I dropped it straight onto his stomach. Squatting down over his mouth I demand he cleans my arse.

“Lick my arse clean, toilet, then suck the rest of it out.”

I put my hand under his jaw and clamped it around his mouth so he had no choice but to lick it clean.

Lighting a cigarette I then got on my knees and fed it to him with a spoon a little at a time, every now and then torturing his balls with my cigarette.

I think he enjoyed his Sunday lunch, he’ll be back in a couple of weeks to do it all again!

Lucky Slave!!!