Nervous Newcomers

  • October 3, 2018

It is not uncommon for a newcomer to the wonderful world of BDSM to be so nervous that they cancel a session, or just do not turn up for it. There are several reasons for this. Let us explore them.

You have requested something that might be too severe for you.

This is probably the most common reason why a submissive decides not to attend for a session. Perhaps you have requested Hard Sports, or a severe caning from cold, then on the day of the session, you realise that you might not be able to go through it. If that is the case, still come for the session, and in our pre session chat, tell me that you would rather try something less severe. Do not worry about disappointing Me. I love guiding a newcomer into the realms of D/s.

You are nervous about being tied up by a complete stranger

Well of course you are! But let Me assure you that this is your session. During our pre session chat, we will discuss your interests and your limits. If, during the session, you decide that you have changed your mind about something, you can say so and we will try something different. Our session can evolve to suit your own evolving and discovering needs. Together we will explore your submissive psyche.

You realise that what you’ve requested will mark you and that you can’t be marked

It is possible to have a fantastic session, with as much or as little pain as you want, without being marked, or with marks that will fade within a few hours, even with impact play. I am very sensitive to the needs of clients who do not want to be marked.

So, what will you do?

Good communication is key, hence our pre session chat. Feel free to change your mind about a planned activity on the day or even during your session.

If you simply do not turn up without giving Me a reason, I will consider you to be a timewaster, and I will not accept further bookings from you. In fact if you don’t turn up without letting Me know, I will not even answer your call if you ring Me in the future. Many Mistresses will quite rightly take this attitude. We do not appreciate anyone wasting Our time, and we will not allow anyone to do that more than once. It’s a small world, and you can’t afford to burn too many bridges. Read My blog about timewasters.

If you are nervous about the session, turn up for the session and talk to Me. I am exceptionally good with beginners.


  • October 3, 2018

Unfortunately, almost all Mistresses have to deal with timewasters. These are people who have no intention of turning up for a session. They just want a bit of free w*nking material. Some timewasters are actually quite good at being timewasters, especially with Mistresses who they think are new to the scene. Experienced Mistresses like Myself have become very adept at recognising a timewaster right from the first moment of contact.

Here are some tactics that might lead Me to consider you to be a timewaster:

Sending Me an email or a DM on Twitter requesting information that is readily available on My website.

Sending Me a Twitter DM saying “I will be booking a session with you soon” or “I will ring you next week” or “Can I ring You Mistress?” or “Hi Mistress” or “Are You online Mistress?”

If I don’t answer your Twitter DM, the most likely reason is that I think you are a timewaster. The only way to prove Me wrong is to read My website then ring Me, book a session and turn up.

Asking Me if you can chat with Me on Skype. Yes you can, but for a fee! See My Webcam & Phone Chat page.

Requesting a session when your Twitter profile says you are owned by another Mistress.

Booking a session then texting Me to say you’ve had a car accident / flat tyre / family emergency etc. Yes we’ve heard all the excuses.

Once I’ve listed you in My phone under the letters TW (TimeWaster) there is no way back for you. I will never answer a phone call from you.

Do not burn too many bridges!

New Premises

  • September 2, 2018

New beginnings!!

I have new premises, still situated in Huddersfield, but much bigger and more rooms to play in.  With shower and toilet facilities.

I will have a medical play room for needleplay and sounds, the bigger room will be My CP room for the novice and the experienced player and the third room will be My toilet training room.

I have private gardens for outdoor play.

I will be having sissy coffee mornings plus much more.

You will be kept up to date with the progress and when it will be ready for play. Look out on My news page for the date..

No Texts Please

  • October 25, 2017

Please do not send me text messages enquiring about sessions, rates, etc. If you want to know anything, ring me.

Also, I do not expect to be asked questions that are clearly answered on my website

Yorkshire Mistress V

The Collaring of slave p

  • August 14, 2017

I collared my new slave today – slave p. He’s been asking for a while. Collaring a slave isn’t something I do lightly. And I need to be sure that the slave is going to take being my slave seriously.

If you are going to be my collared slave, there are a few simple rules that must be obeyed:

  1. You do as I say. Always
  2. You do not session with anyone other than me
  3. In session, there are no limits and no safewords. The only limits are mine

I know slave p doesn’t like being caned. So I caned him. I will do so again. Because I enjoy it. And because I can.

Because slave p never mentioned needles in his cock, I suspect he isn’t keen on that either.  So I stuck needles in his cock.  There will be many more to come.

Our next session will involve the use of sounds. Actually slave p never asked for sounds. But he is going to get them because I love doing it.

So beware: if you are going to become my collared slave, you will belong to me. And you will suffer for me and be grateful for it. Just like my slave p.

Special Offer – 2 hours for £200

  • July 20, 2017

I now have a special offer of 2 hours for just £200. This can include full body worship and my full range of BDSM activities

Click here to book a session

Your Huddersfield Mistress

  • October 9, 2016


Welcome to my new website. I am Mistress V of Huddersfield, a very versatile, sexy and sensual Huddersfield Dominatrix.

Click here to book a session with me

Huddersfield Mistress V